Found at r/relationships and reposted with the permission of mymindisinborabora. She caught this early. Many people never figure it out at all. For those that don’t know, Gaslighting or gas-lighting is a form of mental abuse in which information is twisted or spun, selectively omitted to favor the abuser, or false information is presented with the intent of making victims doubt their own memory, perception, and sanity.
Thanks to everyone who reads this, I’ll try to keep it short.
My boyfriend of 5 months just moved in with me three weeks ago. He had some problems with his apartment (damp walls) and it has to be renovated. As my roommate is currently spending some time abroad, I told him it would be ok if he stayed at my place for 4 to 6 weeks (he’ll be able to move back to his own apartment by that time).
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